Episode 51 | Carrying Style | May 19, 2026

Rafé Totengco

Show Notes: Rafé Totengco grew up in the Philippines, where having clothing made was — and continues to be — a common practice. As a kid, his mom would send him to the tailor, who'd ask, "Okay, what do you want me to make?" That open question sparked Rafe's imagination in a way that led him to launch his own apparel business when he was still a teenager.

When his sister moved to New York City, she invited him to come check it out — & Rafé never really left. He immersed himself in the city's fashion world, studying at FIT, working in fashion houses, freelance styling, & ultimately launching the accessories line he's known for today. His designs include the polished seashell minaudières that have become his signature — bags carried on red carpets by Cameron Diaz, Sarah Jessica Parker, & The Pitt stars Kristin Villanueva & Amielynn Abellera.

Join us on A Life Creative as Rafé shares the story of how a tailor's question in Manila grew into a career at the front of American accessories design — & how he continues to evolve the work today.

Links from the Episode:

Rafé’s website

Rafé on Instagram

Vogue Philippines featuring Rafé


Watch Rafé’s episode on YouTube HERE

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